How did you become a Ron Perlman fan?

[MNK]

Absolutely. Empathy. Course that makes me all the more addicted, so perhaps in the long run I would have been better off with distain. But God, can you imagine how much that would have hurt?

I've been trying to make up a dialogue from him of what I need to hear. Usually I'm not at a loss for putting words in his mouth, I guess that's only when it's what I WANT to hear. This is considerably more difficult. I guess because in real life there is never any easy answer when it comes to telling someone something that you know is going to be difficult for them to hear. Nobody ever wants to do that. It sucks.

I think maybe I'm going about it the wrong way. I need a story to go with it perhaps. I should probably roll that over in my head a while and see if I can get something to click.


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[nyc828]

Perhaps you should just take the cheerleader route. He is happy and you should be. I think he would feel bad if, he knew you weren't happy. His career and achievements is one thing but, personal happiness is another. In the interviews I have seen he has never been malicious or puts others down . He may have been frustrated or grumpy at times but, he always has good words for others and I guarantee he would have the same words for you and that is to enjoy the career but, life is good to live. Remember Moira you have a second chance don't go backwards. Take inspiration from him since, you have followed him for decades and see how he has progressed.

He is a risk taker no doubt about it. He met someone and fell in love and worked it out. I know there had to be obstacles but, he made it happen. In other words he took a leap of faith and now it looks as though he has won. Its easy to say what you are not . It takes gusto to say what you are and going for it . Life is too precious to wilt away. I am right behind you !!

[MNK]

Ah, you just made me cry, Paulette. Thank you for the kind words. I like the image of wilting. Sometimes that's exactly what living without a mate feels like.

One of the things I miss the most about being married, just having someone to bitch to at the end of the day. You married ladies probably take that for granted but it's really kind of a big thing. It distributes the weight of the burden a little bit.

There has to be other men like him out there somewhere. The problem is I'll never be able to see if I only keep looking in one direction. "There is no one so blind as he who will not see."

Thanks for letting me vent. I know it's a bore by now but I do believe most dilemmas have a solution if you don't give up searching for the answers.

[nyc828]

Its understandable he's a hellva guy !! Don't worry about me I'm not bored ! Its good to talk about things no matter how long. Imagine how many people would be in better places if, they had that EAR!

[MNK]

I think sometimes just listening can be the most valuable thing you can do for another person.

[nyc828]

I agree!

[Ronsfav]

me too....

[nyc828]

I recently saw a promo about BATB. It looked weird. I sure hope they don't distroy the true essence of the story.

[MNK]

Oh, don't worry. They will. Sounds more like a re-make of the Hulk than B&B. Gonna mega-suck no doubt about it.

[nyc828]

I am so lucky for fanfics!!!